Hey Sheryl,

It’s Pam from HL.  I’m not on your protected list b/c I had to create a new sign in.  I’m really … dismayed to hear the news you posted at IS.  My first reaction is, “Crap!  She does not need this now, dammit!”.
I hope you are doing well, but reality is that you’re probably feeling like you have emotional whiplash.  Mel’s illness + great new job offer + marital crap.
-Pam